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vagueness is a liability


Vagueness and mushiness are not your friends in the corporate environment. Unless you’re high enough up, or fortified by a strong internal tribe, you’re exposed.

Here’s the thing: when somebody asks you for a deliverable and you deliver it — but they had a different expectation in their head — you’re in trouble.
If the terms weren’t written down? You’re in trouble.
If they felt you didn’t meet the bar, even if you did the work? You’re in trouble.

That’s the danger of a corporate environment where codifications aren’t set, where expectations live in people’s heads, and where the atmosphere runs on pressure and low trust. People will lash out if they feel their own survival is on the line.


building protection

Fortunately, there are ways to insulate against this. Not glamorous, not fun — but effective.

Whenever you make an agreement, follow up with a written record.
Send an email or message:

  • Summarize what was decided.
  • Note what you’re moving forward on.
  • Leave the door open: “If I misunderstood, let me know.”

That gives you protection. You offered space for correction. In a fast-moving environment, the expectation is they’d have spoken up. Silence = alignment.

Of course, this doesn’t solve everything. If the person themselves is unclear or neurotic, you can still get caught in endless shifting expectations. That’s not a loop you want to be trapped in. But the point isn’t perfection — it’s survival. Adaptation. Doing what you can to anchor in chaos.


the accountability doc

One of the simplest ways I’ve found: keep a daily accountability document. Nothing fancy. Messy is fine. The key is to capture as you go, not at the end of the day when your memory is fuzzy.

Drop in:

  • Quick notes of what you did.
  • Links to Slack threads or email subjects.
  • Agreements made.
  • Follow-ups pending.

That way, if something comes back to bite you, you have a paper trail. Even a messy one is better than nothing.

Tools like Wispr Flow make this lighter: just dictate as you go. Later, you can hand it to GPT or Claude with a prompt like:

Summarize today’s work. Organize by:

  • What I did
  • Who I’m following up with
  • What the next steps are
  • What agreements were made
  • What tomorrow looks like

Now your messy notes become an organized report. A daily anchor. Something that keeps you from flailing all day or letting work bleed into every hour.


why it matters

Engineering orgs have Agile, JIRA, rituals, ceremonies.
Some companies don’t. It’s a free-for-all jungle.

If you’re in that jungle, you need to build your own shelter. Your own system of accountability. It’s not glamorous, but it’s survival. Until the org grows discipline of its own, you have to create yours.

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Sep 14, 2025

9:09AM

Alameda, California